Articles By: Jo Hilder

Jo Hilder lives and writes in the mid-north coast of New South Wales, Australia, and is currently writing a book about her cancer experience in 2003, with the working title Things Not To Say To Someone Who Has Cancer. Her blog can be found at www.johilder.com

Searching For The Baby And The Bathwater – Why I Don’t Mind A Little Bit Of Religion

Searching For The Baby And The Bathwater – Why I Don’t Mind A Little Bit Of Religion
  This week, I went to church. Well, I went to a church. This church. It’s Christ Church Anglican Cathedral in my hometown, Newcastle, Australia. I’ve been going to visit this church for a few months now, usually when I need some time to clear my head and sense God’s presence close...
January 23rd, 2012 | Culture, Essays, Featured | Read More

God’s Perfect Will

God’s Perfect Will
Right up until just a few years ago, I had no idea what Gods perfect will for my life was. Like most Christians, I prayed about it a lot. I listened to sermons on it in church, and read books about how to find out what it was. One thing I do know, actually trying to do Gods will is really confusing. It’s...
January 19th, 2012 | Essays, Featured | Read More

Love Means Never Having To Say I’m Not The One Who’s The Alcoholic

Love Means Never Having To Say I’m Not The One Who’s The Alcoholic
I don’t drink. Alcohol, that is. I stopped drinking December 2009. Before that, I liked to drink, and did so whenever I liked. Not too much, you understand, just a glass of red or two probably five nights a week, and sometimes the whole bottle, except for the last half a glass I’d toddle over and...
November 24th, 2011 | Culture, Essays | Read More

The Opposite Of Love

The Opposite Of Love
I remember a few years ago there was a discussion in Christian circles about exactly what the opposite of love could be. If people are not being kind and loving, what exactly were they doing instead? What do they need to stop doing so they can be loving, as we all know God is loving? What stops Christians,...
November 4th, 2011 | Essays | Read More

A Cancer Death Does Not A Hero Make

A Cancer Death Does Not A Hero Make
News reports today share the sad new that Steve Jobs, co-founder of Apple, has passed away after a long illness. Jobs, it’s reported, had pancreatic cancer, a particularly insidious form of the disease. The particular headline I read stated Jobs “lost his fight” against cancer. The media uses this...
October 14th, 2011 | Featured, Social Justice | Read More

The Poor You Will Always Have With You

The Poor You Will Always Have With You
Jesus, bless Him, had a habit of eating out and drinking with certain types of people it was considered inappropriate for him to be seen with. It annoyed people, mostly his inner circle of friends, and they sometimes told him how annoyed they were about it. No, not only did the weirdoes have Jesus over...
September 19th, 2011 | Featured, Social Justice | Read More

Living A Better Love Reality – Part II (For The Girls)

Living A Better Love Reality – Part II (For The Girls)
Now that I’m done addressing the men, it’s time for me to talk to the women-folk.* As you probably know, these two latest articles are my answer to the question posed by author Don Miller  in his blogs “How To Live A Great Love Story” (since deleted). To me, a story is something you make up,...
August 19th, 2011 | Essays, Featured | Read More

Living A Better Love Reality – Part I: For The Guys

Living A Better Love Reality – Part I: For The Guys
Right off the bat, let me say this will not be a list of things you as a man can do for, to, or with, the woman in your life in order to have a better relationship with her. It will not be habits, gestures or practices you can exercise which will please your wife or girlfriend. This is because it will...
August 15th, 2011 | Essays, Featured | Read More

Living A Better Love Reality – An Introduction

Living A Better Love Reality – An Introduction
Recently Donald Miller, a person I admire and respect immensely, wrote a two-part blog speaking to young men and women, presumably of an age where they have been dating a while and are considering marriage, about how they can live a better, more authentic love story. Miller, in his writing, speaks to...
August 12th, 2011 | Essays, Featured | Read More

Why I Don’t Blame You For Thinking The Bible Is Stupid

Why I Don’t Blame You For Thinking The Bible Is Stupid
Some people do funny things with their Bibles. Apart from using them occasionally to cover stains on the back seat of the car, or place between Rob Bell’s latest book and the coffee table to stop a portal to hell from being scorched into it’s surface (if hell really exists, that is), the Bible...
July 15th, 2011 | Essays, Featured | Read More